YOUR GUIDE TO PICKING UP WOMEN IN BARS

Easy One-Night Stands

By Marius Panzarella  2003, All Rights Reserved

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Introduction - Why One Night Stands? There are many reasons why one-night stands are good for the seduction student. First of all, they can REALLY tune up your skills and give you the experience and confidence you need to seduce women. Are you a shy virgin? Believe me: once you’ve slept with a few women, you are not going to be so shy anymore. One-night stands are also cheaper than dating – especially for the average Mr. Nice-Guy-who-never-gets-any. We all know what Mr. Nice Guy does on a date. He takes the girl out to a fancy restaurant ($50) and buys her flowers. ($10) Then he takes her to a nice club where it costs $30 to get in. Inside the club he orders a few rounds of drinks. ($30) Then he hails a cab and takes the girl home. ($20) How much money has he spent so far? $150. But is he guaranteed to get laid? Not likely. Chances are, he’s not even going to get to kiss her. What a loser. Then there are seducers like me who take a woman out on a cheap date and drive them home for some marvelous sex after. But still, every once in awhile, a man just wants action. We just want to spend the whole night screwing a hot chick’s brains out and then get the hell out. Yes, if the girl is smart and girlfriend-material, we may want to get her phone number and keep her around. But the point is, if you’re just interested in the woman’s body and not her soul, one-night stands require much less effort. So if you’re looking for a girlfriend, fine…go on a date! But if you’re just looking for sex, then having one-night stands is the way to go. And this is what this report will show you: how to have an endless supply of sex partners by having one-night stands. Preparation Going into a bar is like going on a first date: You must create a good first impression on the women you meet. So make sure you groom yourself properly before you go out. Make sure your breath is fresh, your nails are cut, and your clothes are clean, etc…etc…etc…

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You should also tidy up your room a bit – especially if you’re planning to take a chick home. Keep a few condoms close to the bed. You don’t want to say “Hang on, I’ll be right back” just when she’s begging for you to put it in. Where To Go The best way of finding where you should go is by reading the ads and reviews in the local newspapers. New to a city? Pick up the local guide and check out the “nightlife” section. Next, decided what kind of women you would like to hit on. Remember that most ladies hang out within the boundaries of their own groups. The college kids will probably stay near the college bars, the urban professionals will probably party with their yuppie friends downtown, and the travelers will probably hang out near the hotel or airport lounges. Types of Bars and their People LOCATION

People/Age

College Bars

College kids. (Age 19-25) Maybe a few high school kids who manage to slip in. (Be careful. Going to jail isn’t fun!)

Local Taverns

Local workers (Age 25+) who go there to drink socially after a long day of work.

Hotel Lounges

(Age 27+) Professionals, business people and travelers.

Near-Airport Bars

Where the stewardesses and some travelers hang out between flights. (Age 25+)

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Artsie Bars (Coffee houses, Theatrearea Bars / Jazz Lounges)

(Age 23+) Where the groupies and yuppies go after a show. Can sometimes meet some “showbiz” people. (Local theatre actresses, etc…maybe a couple of dancers!)

Yuppie Bars

(Age 25-35) Where the young professionals hang out after work.

Try to find out if a bar has any special nights or events before you go. Some times there are single dance nights, etc. Entering The Bar You want to enter the bar like a man. Walk tall and act confident. Pause at the door for a few seconds and scan the environment quickly before you walk on. The chicks will be more likely to notice you if you pause for a few seconds at the door instead of marching right in like most guys do. Stage actors use this trick onstage all the time – they pause upon their entrances to attract attention from the audience! As you scan the bar, note where most of the chicks are sitting. See if there are any single women available. If so, pick one and walk over to their direction right away. If not, go sit where you can observe all the seating areas. Then look around and scan for the largest group of women. Selecting A Target There are a few different types of women you should go for: The Trophy: Sometimes when I enter a bar, I scan for the hottest single chick in the bar and march right up to her right away. This way all the women will know I only deal with the hotties. Of course, that way I won’t even have time to freak or

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become shy. If she doesn’t like me, fine. I hit on the second best and move my way down till I find a chick who appreciates my company. The Wallflower: Some beginners find it easier to hit on the single “wallflower” sitting at the corner that nobody talks to. Sure, she may be hmm…wearing glasses and looking a bit geeky – but hey…she will probably be flattered by your attention. A group: If there aren’t any single women around, then you should start hitting on the groupies. What you should do is go up to the largest group of women and ask the least attractive women to dance. Dance a few dances with her and really get to know her – without paying much attention to the more attractive girls in her group. Trust me, the others will go crazy and try to seduce you and stuff. As for the girl you’re dancing with…she will probably claim you as her trophy and try her best to make you stay with her. If anything goes wrong, just go to another group and repeat the process. By the way, when you’re hitting on someone from a group try to find out who’s the driver. Don’t hit on the driver because you won’t be able to isolate her from the others. Also, before you hit on a woman, try to analyze her for a few seconds. Ask yourself the following questions: 1) Does she seem to be in the right mood? 2) What is she drinking? A cheap bear or from a bottle? 3) Is she with a guy? Is there a drink next to hers? Or maybe a jacket on the chair? 4) What is her apparent age? 5) What is she wearing? Work clothes? (Off from work?) Stylish? (Like a yuppie?) Or “cheap”? 6) Is she talking? Or is she quiet and just listening to her friends talk? 5

The Pick Up I always start a pick up with a simple eye contact. Every time I see a young, attractive lady I would like to meet at a bar or club, I always stand or sit down in her direct view. The next thing I do is to make direct eye contact with her and smile slightly. If she smiles back, I know she is onto me. And if she looks down or blushes lightly, I wait for about a minute and see if she steals another glance at me. If she does, I know she wants me to approach her. Sometimes they don’t look down – she just turns towards me. That’s good too. She’s making a move. Great. I give her a nod and approach her immediately. If she is with a group, I ask her for a dance. If she’s single, I pull up a chair or stool and sit beside her. As for the pickup line, I usually use a simple “Hi” and sometimes a “How are you?” as a quick follow-up. Then I simply carry on the conversation and try to create as much connection between us as possible, using the conversation techniques I have discussed in my main book. Closing In Okay. So you have walked into a bar, found your hottie, and begun talking to her. Good. After about twenty minutes of talking, you should begin to move closer. Most bars play loud music – use this to your advantage. Whisper into her ears if you’re sitting next to her. And if she’s sitting across the table, lean forward. See if she follows. Also, if you haven’t danced with her yet. Isolation The next part of the game is to isolate her from her friends and your environment. You want to bring her into YOUR world, where you are in control. There are a couple of things you can do: 1) Take her to an area of the bar with more privacy. Maybe a table in a distant, dark corner. Or the balcony upstairs.

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2) Take her outside for a smoke or some fresh air. Then take a walk on the streets and before you know it, you are somewhere else! 3) Take her to another bar. If all fail, take her to get some drinks. Asking her for a dance may also do the trick. Simply lead her to another table when the dance is over. Hold Her Hand NOW The next goal is to hold her hand. Remember you must hold a girl’s hand before you kiss her…so this is a very important stage! As soon as you two have decided to go somewhere else…be it somewhere outside or in the bar…grab her hand and lead her along. Good. You’re a couple now – at least for the night. The Kiss So you’re holding your hand…good…the next step is to kiss her. Hold her close. Stroke her hair a bit. Look at her in the eyes. Then move in and kiss her softly, move back out and look at her in the eyes again. If she’s happy, lean forward again and give her a real kiss this time. Or hold her close and whisper something nice into her ears. Then kiss her ear lightly…and slowly kiss your way across her cheek and down to her mouth. If she doesn’t pull away, kiss her on the lips. Once you have kissed her, you should try making out with her. If you’re on a couch in a dark corner of the bar or something, good. Start cuddling. If not, get a little bit of privacy and then do it.

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The Decision At this point, you must either decide whether you’re going to attempt to get into her pants now or delay the sex for another night. (Who knows why?) If you choose the later, then you should tell her you have to go and ask her for her phone number right there. Tell her you will call her – and then get the hell out. But if you are like me, you will probably want to get a little bit of action tonight. In that case, bring her back to your place or hers: 1) You can ask her to do something innocent at your house. Check out your CD collection. Look at your paintings. Drink a glass of wine. Do not make it seem like you’re just inviting her because you want to get into her pants. Always make it seem non-sexual! 2) Take her home and get yourself invited in. If she says no, then too bad. Seems like you’re not getting laid tonight. You could try asking for her phone number and setting up a date for another night. If at any time she plays coy and says something like “You just want sex, don’t you?”, just use reverse psychology and say something like “What? I just wanted to have a good time cuddling and talking with you. You seem like such a nice person.” Making Out and Sex Once you’re inside, just follow the instructions in my main manual on how to make out. The Next Morning So you’ve just slept with a girl. Okay. It’s decision time. Do you want to keep her or drop her?

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If you want to drop her, that should be easy. Get her phone number. Just don’t call again. But let’s say you think she’s beautiful and smart and really what you consider good girlfriend-material, than you see if she wants to go for breakfast or brunch. Trust me. If she doesn’t want you to be around, she will just kick you out. If she doesn’t want to go for breakfast, then get dressed and say some nice things to her. It should be something deeper than just how good she was in bed. Tell her what a nice girl she is, etc. And then just when you’re about to leave, exchange phone numbers and ask for a dinner date for another night. Then kiss her good-bye and get the heck out! Thanks for reading - I hope you’re planning to hit a bar or two this weekend. If you have any questions, comments, or suggestions, please email me at [email protected] Have fun getting laid! Don’t forget to mail me your success stories!

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